Cinco de Mayo for a Birthday!

I’m slowly working on assembling a photo book of Javi’s first year, and I’m enjoying browsing through the pictures I took last year. As I was working on <Javi – Five months old>, I found these pictures from the birthday party we hosted for our friend Yesi last May. Her birthday is the 4th, but we went with a Mexican theme because she loves Mexican  food. Of course, once I was out shopping, I realized that it was Cinco de Mayo, and the perfect time to host a Mexican party! We decked out the dining room, blasted mariachi music, and had a wonderful time.

The centerpiece, made from a thrifted basket, fresh flowers, peppers and a pineapple, and fake carnations. So happy!

Yesi is a private gal, so I’ll just show you the decor, and let you imagine the house full of her friends celebrating her very special day.

Our picnic blanket is an awesome old Bolivian blanket, and it worked perfectly as the tablecloth. All of our Culoare Zi decorations came in handy, I pulled out the string lights and paper lanterns, along with every other festive tablecloth and candleholder we had. The more the merrier!

We had faux carnations for all the girls to put in their hair – so fun! I also had every intention of making mustaches for all the guys, but alas, ran out of time. Maybe next time!

The margarita station was a big hit – and I’ll always laugh at the memory of Yesi and her mom arguing over whether rum is an alcohol or not. Her mom insisted it wasn’t – and who am I to argue with a feisty Cuban grandma? :)

The dollar store had these mariachi hats for… you guessed it… a dollar, so I picked up several and hung them up around the room – so simple and easy.

One of my favorite things that we did at the party was a tradition passed on by my friend Andrea. We went around the room and shared one of our favorite things about the birthday girl (and wrote them down so she would remember!). A birthday is a chance to celebrate the special person that you are, and I love the way of celebrating. Feel free to steal borrow this idea and use it at your next birthday party! It’s always a hit!

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Javi’s Floor Bed

This is where Javi sleeps for his naps and every night. It’s just a twin mattress laid directly on the floor. Javi is free to move around his room as he pleases, to play as much as he wants while in his room, and to go to bed when he pleases.

Apparently, this is a Montessori approved method of raising your children. We’re not “Montessori” parents, by any stretch of the imagination, but I agree with a lot of the principles that Montessori teaches -independence, freedom within limits, kid-friendly with responsibility, etc.

Honestly, one of the biggest reasons we decided to do this was because cribs feel like “baby jail” to me. I’m not judging anyone who puts their kid in a crib. There is just something about it that was off-putting to me. So while I was still pregnant, I started researching other options, and came across the floor bed idea.

Javi started out life sleeping in a swing in our room, then moved to a cradle in his own room around 6 weeks. He stayed in the cradle until he could roll and move quite a bit, which was around 5 months old. At that point we tried a PeaPod (which has apparently now been recalled!) on the floor of his room. The PeaPod is just a kid sized tent that packs up into a tiny bag for easy travel. The idea was that Javi would always have the same bed no matter where we were. Great in theory, but he hated the thing. So after a couple of months of failing to get him to sleep in the PeaPod, we let him sleep in a pack n’ play. He slept in the Pack n’ Play over the summer, while he learned to crawl. I figured transitioning him to the floor bed wouldn’t work until he could navigate the 3 or 4 inches it would take to get in and out of bed himself.

Once he was a champion crawler, we set up the twin mattress in his room. We started testing the floor bed out at night, when he was very tired and already used to the bedtime routine. During the day we spent time in his room letting him explore and figuring out what      areas needed to be childproofed. At this point he still napped every day in his jumper- hands down his favorite place to sleep. But he took to sleeping in his bed like a champ at night, with hardly any trouble.

Naps were much more difficult, and it took longer for him to realize that if he was tired when it was light out he could just go and nap! I’d say it took about a month for him to consistently take really good naps on his own.

One of the biggest things that contributed to the success of the floor bed, in my opinion, was the webcam we set up in his room. As soon as we started the floor bed thing, we could  watch and see what he was up to and if he was sleeping. We joke that it’s JaviTV and we’ll just sit there and watch him play sometimes.

I was worried about him rolling over and falling out of the bed but he only did that two or three times before he figured it out. We obviously shut and latch his bedroom door so he’s always safe within his room. And he always has a few toys and books in there to keep him entertained – we’ve learned through trial and error which toys are too exciting for sleep time. :-) It’s also fantastic for marathon nursing sessions or bad bouts of teething, I can just snuggle up with him and we both go right to sleep.

I love that Javi can just wake up and start playing. Many times we go in to get him and he’s  hidden behind a curtain, checking out the world outside his window. He’s typically asleep within half an hour of us putting him to bed, both for naps and at night. Javi has never needed a lot of sleep, so this is a solution that works great for him and us. He’s free to get up and play, and we’re free to catch just a few more ZZZs in the morning.

So far, it’s working out great both for Javi and us. What do you think? Would you let your kid have the run of their room, and sleep “on  the floor?”

And yes, in case you were wondering, Javi’s room always looks this clean and pristine. :D

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a hard week full of blessings

Last week was a full, crazy, stressful week. The kind where each day goes by and you think- phew, I made it through today! And you wonder if tomorrow will be as difficult, and you pray that it’s not, but then it turns out to be just as hard. Lover worked all weekend last weekend, and then every.single. week night. It was insane. I was so thankful that my parents were here to help, play with Javi and keep us busy. But I missed Lover terribly.

One of the hardest adjustments of having Javi was no longer having loads of uninterrupted time for just Lover and I. We have our set-in-stone weekly date nights, and we do our best to take advantage of the times we get besides that, but when we have a week like last week, where we don’t even spend enough time together to reflect on our day… it’s not fun.

The point of this post is not to complain. The point is that God has been teaching me about a change in perspective. Remember when I talked about dirty dishes a few posts ago? It’s the same lesson. I tried to look for things to be thankful for last week. Thankful for the amount of time I got to spend with my parents. Thankful for the chance for Javi to get to know his Yayo and Yaya. Thankful for the crocuses that pushed their way up through the snow with happy little yellow flowers. Thankful that I’m married to a man that loves us enough to get up and go to work every day when I know he’s exhausted and tired of it all.

And after the clarity of a couple of good night’s sleep, some time together and some downtime, I’m reminded even more of how truly blessed I am. Blessed that these really hard weeks are few and far between. Blessed with a beautiful family. Blessed with a little boy who lights up our days. Blessed with another little baby whose life is filled with promise. Blessed with a heavenly Father who  loves me and has given me a holy calling to serve him as daughter, wife and mother.

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Happy, happy

Happy Monday! Do you like Mondays? I like them just fine, with the exception of missing Lover. We’re always so sad when Monday morning rolls around and  he has to leave for work. :(

I’m on a mission to happy-ify our kitchen. I spend tons of time in there, so it makes sense to fill it with things that make me happy, right?

The first thing I did was make a happy pennant banner. I raided my scrapbook paper stash, and pulled out anything that  worked with my color scheme. Half and hour later I was up on a chair with a drill, hanging my happy banner.

In this shot  you can also  see that I painted the window trim. All the window and door trim has been painted white, and I am working up the motivation to paint the cabinets and crown molding now! Oh, and there’s a sneek peak at our new faucet that I LOVE.

A pretty plant in my window makes me smile. Plus, I can’t kill it, so double smile. :)Three of the four plants in there are fake. :) Take that black thumb!

I love these dishtowels so much. I have three or four of them, and I wish I had purchased a dozen. :) They’re pretty, absorbent and not scratchy. It’s hard to find the perfect dishtowel, wouldn’t you agree?

I painted a Katie Daisy inspired painting with one of my favorite quotes by Mother Teresa. For now it’s hanging to the left of the big picture window, but that could always change. :)

And lastly, a little plaque with an awesome picture of little man and I, with a verse that has a story to it. I’ll share it another day.

So those are the most recent updates. All little things that make me smile, and make me love this room a little more. Now, to paint those cabinets!! :) Happy Monday!

 

 

 

 

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The Sequel

I have very happy news to share today. Check out the picture below to find out my very exciting  plans for this summer!

We can’t wait! I wanted our babies close together, and little man and this little peanut will be just under two years apart, which I think will be perfect. :-)

I’m feeling pretty good – much better than the first time, but navigating preggo nausea with a little toddler makes for interesting days!

I’ll keep you posted as we get closer to D-Day! :)

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A Bit of Writer’s Block

February is racing by, and yet creeping by at a snail’s pace too. This winter is really getting to me… I’m ready for some warmth! :-)

Little man has been waking up very early (for him!) so a lot of mornings look like this around here. :-)

Javi is just soaking up new things like a sponge. It is an absolute blast to see what new thing he’ll figure out how to do each day. Today it was the hand motions that go along with Itsy Bitsy Spider – yesterday it was going to get the dustpan when asked… the boy amazes me.

Lover and I ask ourselves all the time – what if the rest of our kids are not this eternally happy and easygoing? Will we love them less? I don’t think so, of course, but boy is this kid easy to love.

I’m taking an online photography class that I love. I’ve learned so much, especially in a few areas that had me really frustrated. It’s a nice distraction from the chilly temps outside, and I love my captive model! :-)

One of my goals for this year is to read a non-fiction book every month. I managed to slip one in last month – but it’s the 21st of Feb and I haven’t even looked for a book yet for this month. Hmm. Better get on that! :-)

God had been teaching me a lot lately, and it mostly comes down to a heart attitude. When I choose my actions to please Him, I’m a better wife, mother, friend… person in general. Not easy, but when I do it, I’m happier than I’ve ever felt before.

I’m keeping a gratitude journal again this year, and I love how it reminds me to change my perspective.  When I am frustrated by the mound of dishes in the sink, I remember that I can instead be thankful for heated, running indoor water, the meals that those dishes represent, the fact that dishes are one of the “hardest” things I’ll face today… yep, I’m blessed. :-)

We have plans to finally replace this kitchen floor with something a little more neutral (and cleaner!) and I find myself wondering if I’ll miss this floor when I look back in pictures. It’s cracking and heaving in places, and terribly stained in others, so it definitely needs replacing, but it’s one of the last remnants of the previous owners’ wacky sense of style in the house. Will I miss it when it’s gone? :)

One of Javi’s new things is loving snacks. He brings me whatever looked good to him in the cupboard, and then immediately sits down on the floor so I will give him some. My kitchen floor has never been so messy, but my heart has never been so full. :-)

What’s filling your February days?

 

 

 

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The Basement Overhaul Chapter 6

This was a big day, progress wise. Electrical all got strung and hooked up in one long, frustrating (for the guys) day. When the previous owners “remodeled” the basement, they did some really funky electrical work. Some of it was so crazy that the guys decided to leave it alone and run all new wiring instead. They decided that was safer and less hassle, and we agreed.

With all the pine paneling off the stairwell we could now see that the plaster was in decent shape on one side, and obviously would need some drywall to patch that big old hole. (used to be a spot to hang coats, but it never worked well because the coats jutted out into the stairwell in a very unsafe way)

The existing original stairs were backless and creaky, so we had the guys add plywood risers (and ultimately new treads on top of the old ones.) This immediately made the stairs feel safer and more secure.

Lastly, the bathroom got the drywall hung on the walls and ceiling. It was now starting to feel like a real bathroom! :-)

 

 

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The Basement Overhaul Chapter 5

The guys finished hanging the drywall around the great room in record time. We paid the extra couple of dollars to get the “greenboard” drywall just in case of any moisture issues. We’ve only ever had water problems because of “human error”; no flooding or seepage, but we figured better safe than sorry.

The bathroom was cleared out to drywall the next day, as well as the stairwell. I was so glad to see that knotty pine paneling go!

 

 

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113 Things in 1/13

Two years ago I got rid of 111 things in 1/11. It was surprisingly (shockingly?) easy to find that many things to get rid of, and was really an eye opener for me. I try to declutter and purge regularly, but we still accumulate so much stuff on an ongoing basis.

Then, last year, we added a little munchkin to the mix, along with all the baby paraphernalia. And although I’ve done my best to not accumulate every baby item on the market, there is still a certain amount of unavoidable baby gear, toys and clothing that has made its way into the house.

Last fall, after we finished the basement,  I started purging and cleaning every room again. Now that the basement stuff wasn’t all stored in the attic, I cleaned and organized up there. And now that the basement was actually clean and accessible, I started organizing down there. As of the beginning of this year, I have four diaper boxes full of stuff to donate, along with several garbage bags full of stuff that needed to be tossed.

So I’m challenging myself to come up with 113 things this month that I can get rid of, in addition to those four boxes I already have set aside. I’m going through closets, cupboards and dressers, in my ongoing quest to get rid of the excess.

I’ll update next week on my progress – but won’t you consider joining me in this quest for less? Let me assure you, it’s super fun and satisfying to pare down and rid your house of junk!

 

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The Basement Overhaul Chapter 4

Monday morning (how fitting, since today is a Monday also!) the guys showed up bright and early and got to work with a vengeance. The framing was incredibly loud, but they were done with the entire basement by lunchtime. They also ran the wire for the electrical in the exterior walls, stapled plastic sheeting to all of the framing to form an extra moisture barrier, and then got started hanging the drywall. This is where they left off Monday night. And yes, it felt amazing to walk down the stairs and see the beginning of walls!

 

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